I'm old school, I like action, but I want to see somebody fall in love. I want to see that life stuff.

 What happened to that old school love?  I recently have been binge watching romantic movies and it made me question this?  What happened to when a guy would come to your doorstep to pick you up with flowers and even open your car door?  Or that love that consisted of morals,values and honesty?

I had recently gone on a date with a guy that seemed perfect.  We talked about everything under the sun, he even brought up the whole sex thing and not wanting to rush into it.  At this day and age that is almost unheard of, most guys are just on the prowl for the next notch in their belt.  So he comes to pick me up for the first time and he never even got out of the car?  Why? Now don't get me wrong I am a very independent woman but it would have been nice for him to come to the door for the first time when picking me up.  

Society has changed this world so much that men don't feel the need to do this anymore.  In today's world social media runs it.  Men are not the only ones to blame, females can be just as bad.  No one wants to find the "One".  It's all about what and who you can do and air it all out on Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat.  In my twenties I had plenty of girl friends that had a different booty call for almost every day a week.  I myself couldn't bother with all that mess because trust me it got ugly most of the time.   I was always searching for that Notebook movie type of love.  Sadly sometimes I wish social media didn't have such an impact that it does, but in a world that runs on likes or requests it's hard to keep it "real."

Does this mean every guy doesn't do this anymore? No that's not what I am saying but recently while dating I can tell you every date I have gone on not one man showed up with a flower or even came to the door to get me.  Do they know they should do this? Sadly probably not many people have come from backgrounds where parents are not together, or never saw their father being romantic to their mother.  We need to teach our younger generation the aspect of how to court someone that they are truly interested in.

All I can hope for is I eventually find that old school love I crave ❤

Xoxo

Jessica