Single girl looking for love in a lonely world!

 What happened to that old school love?  I recently have been binge watching romantic movies and it made me question this?  What happened to when a guy would come to your doorstep to pick you up with flowers and even open your car door?  Or that love that consisted of morals,values and honesty? I had recently gone on a date with a guy that seemed perfect.  We talked about everything under the sun, he even brought up the whole sex thing and not wanting to rush into it.  At this day and age that is almost unheard of, most guys are just on the prowl for the next notch in their belt.  So he comes to pick me up for the first time and he never even got out of the car?  Why? Now don't get me wrong I am a very independent woman but it would have been nice for him to come to the door for the first time when picking me up.   Society has changed this world so much that men don't feel the need to do this anymore.  In today's world social media ...

 As a single woman dating in today's world the question I ask myself all the time when getting to know someone is he too good to be true? Sadly dating has changed so much and people lie so much it's hard to believe anything you hear.  So my most recent dating "experience" comes this charming guy.   So randomly sitting on the couch reading a book when my phone goes  off on facebook saying that "Bob" sent you a friend request.  So I casually look at Bob's profile and see we have so many mutual friends now my mind starts to wonder did I meet him somewhere back in the day maybe a club or a bar?  So anyways I accept it then he starts to pursue me all day by liking status and pictures.  Later on that evening my phone is going off that I have a message it's Bob he starts off so charming, saying sorry for the flood of likes today with a winky face, from there the conversation developed.  I found out he had a car,job, his own place, no kids and never ...

  Being in a relationship is an amazing thing if you have found the right person. However if they are not the one for you, you will slowly see yourself  changing.  So how do you know if your with the right person? We obviously all have different views on this.  To me the right person for you brings out the best in you always.  They will be your support system, your shoulder to cry on, lover,fighter,provider.  Now don't get me wrong I am 100% independent but we all crave that security and intimacy to make us feel whole.  My past relationships had some of these qualities but not all and something always felt off, was it just me or did they feel it to? How can you be all these things for someone if you don't feel the same way towards them? You can't force the heart to do anything the heart wants what it wants.  The most important aspect in all of this is self love! If you do not love yourself you cannot love someone else as you should. After my last ...

 Every girl grows up dreaming about her wedding day and marrying her prince and living happily ever after am I right ladies? Well sadly in today's world relationships and true love are hard to find and keep. Throughout my life I had many friends find the "One" , and I watched happy for them but sad for me. I think when it really hit home for me was when my baby sister got engaged and started to plan her wedding. I am so happy for her and her fiance is an amazing guy, but somehow I kept asking myself when was it going to be my time? I am educated, smart,ambitious, caring and will give anyone anything that they need, but somehow could not have that great connection with someone.  Is it me or my expectations? So let me back it up a bit while a junior in high school my father had an affair and it broke my heart.  My parents were the true love story met as kids married at 18 and started a family. They built an amazing life for themselves and us.  We always had our own hom...