"I don’t have to be perfect, I just have to be me."

As in my about me this blog is going to be about how I balance my business, family and love life in this crazy world. Single ladies you know where I am coming from with the dating mess nowadays.

After being in a dead end relationship where I felt like a mom for 9 years I had decided to end it and move on with my life. It was the best decision I have ever made for myself. As I had felt like I lost my groove just like Stella had. As the months rolled by it was like a breath of fresh air daily. It feels amazing to learn new things about myself and learning to love myself more as each day goes by.

I hope you will stay tuned for this crazy ride we call life together.

Comments

"No Strings Attached"

"No strings attached sex" is bullshit. As my first experience of "no strings attached" sex didn't go so well. I have never had an issue with people having a one night stand, booty call or friends with benefits situation to each it's own. It's the phrase "no strings attached" that I despise. It never ends up being that easy no matter how it started. Sadly "no strings attached" became the next best thing for a man or a woman who is afraid of commitment. In reality, no strings attached sex is used in many different scenarios: sex with strangers, sex with friends who we do not want romantically or even drunk sex. Often we use this situation if we have just broken up with a partner, or looking for some sort of validation that you are sexy and men crave you, or just wanting to try out that hot bartender that you and your friends are crushing on. Why does it end up being so complicated if it comes from two consenting adults? I...

"When it's real you can't walk away."

Every girl grows up dreaming about her wedding day and marrying her prince and living happily ever after am I right ladies? Well sadly in today's world relationships and true love are hard to find and keep. Throughout my life I had many friends find the "One" , and I watched happy for them but sad for me. I think when it really hit home for me was when my baby sister got engaged and started to plan her wedding. I am so happy for her and her fiance is an amazing guy, but somehow I kept asking myself when was it going to be my time? I am educated, smart,ambitious, caring and will give anyone anything that they need, but somehow could not have that great connection with someone. Is it me or my expectations? So let me back it up a bit while a junior in high school my father had an affair and it broke my heart. My parents were the true love story met as kids married at 18 and started a family. They built an amazing life for themselves and us. We always had our own hom...

I'm old school, I like action, but I want to see somebody fall in love. I want to see that life stuff.

What happened to that old school love? I recently have been binge watching romantic movies and it made me question this? What happened to when a guy would come to your doorstep to pick you up with flowers and even open your car door? Or that love that consisted of morals,values and honesty? I had recently gone on a date with a guy that seemed perfect. We talked about everything under the sun, he even brought up the whole sex thing and not wanting to rush into it. At this day and age that is almost unheard of, most guys are just on the prowl for the next notch in their belt. So he comes to pick me up for the first time and he never even got out of the car? Why? Now don't get me wrong I am a very independent woman but it would have been nice for him to come to the door for the first time when picking me up. Society has changed this world so much that men don't feel the need to do this anymore. In today's world social media ...

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