"I don’t have to be perfect, I just have to be me."

As in my about me this blog is going to be about how I balance my business, family and love life in this crazy world. Single ladies you know where I am coming from with the dating mess nowadays.

After being in a dead end relationship where I felt like a mom for 9 years I had decided to end it and move on with my life. It was the best decision I have ever made for myself. As I had felt like I lost my groove just like Stella had. As the months rolled by it was like a breath of fresh air daily. It feels amazing to learn new things about myself and learning to love myself more as each day goes by.

I hope you will stay tuned for this crazy ride we call life together.

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So where's my happy ever after?

I often ask myself "Where's my happy ending"? I am the type of person whether you are family, friend or a potential partner I give you all of me good and bad. Sometimes I often let people take advantage of me and that is one of my weaknesses for sure. I have always craved that fairy tale love and have never seemed to find it, or keep it, yet I have friends who have and have thrown it away for a cheap one night stand or a summer fling why? Why can't anyone just be happy when they find someone who gives them their all? Should I sacrifice my wants and needs for what comes to me and is convenient and just settle? Now don't get me wrong I do have a "list" of what I am looking for in a man. Some of my friends say I am crazy for having a "list", but I disagree I have worked very hard my whole life to get where I am today and wants someone who also has goals and inspirations and not living in mommy and daddy's basement. Am I wrong for this?...

I'm old school, I like action, but I want to see somebody fall in love. I want to see that life stuff.

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Sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.

As a 36 year old woman I have just became familiar with the latest trending dating situation called "ghosting". If you aren't sure what that means it is when you've been seeing someone romantically and suddenly they just stop talking to you. No texts messages, snaps or calls, they have basically cut you off entirely, leaving you questioning yourself "What did I do wrong"? Dating today in itself is so confusing and hard how can there possibly be another situation to worry about? At my age you think men would be ready to settle down but no they are looking for the next best thing. Casual sex, no strings attached sex has become the new normal. Many of my friends often talk about this and how low there expectations are of actually finding someone to date seriously as we have all had terrible experiences. If communication is the key in a a relationship why do people ghost? I believe people ghost because it's easier to pull away then to deal with the lac...

Single girl looking for love in a lonely world!

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