"I don’t have to be perfect, I just have to be me."

As in my about me this blog is going to be about how I balance my business, family and love life in this crazy world. Single ladies you know where I am coming from with the dating mess nowadays.

After being in a dead end relationship where I felt like a mom for 9 years I had decided to end it and move on with my life. It was the best decision I have ever made for myself. As I had felt like I lost my groove just like Stella had. As the months rolled by it was like a breath of fresh air daily. It feels amazing to learn new things about myself and learning to love myself more as each day goes by.

I hope you will stay tuned for this crazy ride we call life together.

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"When it's real you can't walk away."

Every girl grows up dreaming about her wedding day and marrying her prince and living happily ever after am I right ladies? Well sadly in today's world relationships and true love are hard to find and keep. Throughout my life I had many friends find the "One" , and I watched happy for them but sad for me. I think when it really hit home for me was when my baby sister got engaged and started to plan her wedding. I am so happy for her and her fiance is an amazing guy, but somehow I kept asking myself when was it going to be my time? I am educated, smart,ambitious, caring and will give anyone anything that they need, but somehow could not have that great connection with someone. Is it me or my expectations? So let me back it up a bit while a junior in high school my father had an affair and it broke my heart. My parents were the true love story met as kids married at 18 and started a family. They built an amazing life for themselves and us. We always had our own home,lat

"No Strings Attached"

"No strings attached sex" is bullshit. As my first experience of "no strings attached" sex didn't go so well. I have never had an issue with people having a one night stand, booty call or friends with benefits situation to each it's own. It's the phrase "no strings attached" that I despise. It never ends up being that easy no matter how it started. Sadly "no strings attached" became the next best thing for a man or a woman who is afraid of commitment. In reality, no strings attached sex is used in many different scenarios: sex with strangers, sex with friends who we do not want romantically or even drunk sex. Often we use this situation if we have just broken up with a partner, or looking for some sort of validation that you are sexy and men crave you, or just wanting to try out that hot bartender that you and your friends are crushing on. Why does it end up being so complicated if it comes from two consenting adults? I'

So where's my happy ever after?

I often ask myself "Where's my happy ending"? I am the type of person whether you are family, friend or a potential partner I give you all of me good and bad. Sometimes I often let people take advantage of me and that is one of my weaknesses for sure. I have always craved that fairy tale love and have never seemed to find it, or keep it, yet I have friends who have and have thrown it away for a cheap one night stand or a summer fling why? Why can't anyone just be happy when they find someone who gives them their all? Should I sacrifice my wants and needs for what comes to me and is convenient and just settle? Now don't get me wrong I do have a "list" of what I am looking for in a man. Some of my friends say I am crazy for having a "list", but I disagree I have worked very hard my whole life to get where I am today and wants someone who also has goals and inspirations and not living in mommy and daddy's basement. Am I wrong for this?

Single girl looking for love in a lonely world!

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